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Too many lords, not enough stewards

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 1, 2018 21:58 UTC (Thu) by pbonzini (subscriber, #60935)
In reply to: Too many lords, not enough stewards by josh
Parent article: Too many lords, not enough stewards

There are hundreds of maintainers in the kernel, dozens that I've interacted with. They are different people, none of them perfect---I get along better with some and like their manners better, some others I know that they are going to be extremely helpful if I need to touch their subsystem, and so on. No, working on the Linux kernel is not perfect.

Yet many of the maintainers want to improve the community starting with their little piece. Calling the Linux community names like "appalling" or "toxic" might have been a Twitter sport for some time now, but a sweeping generalization saying that the usual, expected maintainer behavior can be likened to abuser-victim relationships? That's a first, and I think it crosses a line---so much for bragging that your subsystem has a code of conduct.

_No one_ deserves that, among Linux developers or anyone else. I have never felt as uneasy (in a work setting of course), as listening to Daniel's talk made me feel.


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Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 1, 2018 22:11 UTC (Thu) by msnitzer (guest, #57232) [Link]

Well said Paolo!

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 1, 2018 23:05 UTC (Thu) by airlied (subscriber, #9104) [Link]

But why does make you uneasy? Do you think there is some truth in it, if you are pretty confident there is no parallels between maintainer behaviour and abuser-victim relationship then you'd have no reason to fell uneasy and could just dismiss Daniel's comments out of hand.

I've been on the receiving end of my fair share of Linus fits, and I've describe my reaction to those to a few people who definitely drew parallels to an abusive relationship. My excuse was I was staying for the kids.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 1, 2018 23:36 UTC (Thu) by msnitzer (guest, #57232) [Link]

For me Daniel's spin makes me uneasy because it is filled with such vitriol. And the picture he is painting doesn't reflect the reality I know myself and other maintainers deal with on a daily basis. So while we can ignore Daniel, it is made harder when Daniel's fairly warped screed gets carefully written up on LWN for the uninitiated to read. The take away is: this shit show of a community is what produces the most widely used OS in the world!? It just isn't fair. But life and people aren't fair. SO fuck it.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 1, 2018 23:44 UTC (Thu) by rodgerd (guest, #58896) [Link]

"Vitriol".

From the guy calling people "snowflakes."

I think the problem here is the talk cuts too close to the bone for you.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 1, 2018 23:57 UTC (Thu) by pbonzini (subscriber, #60935) [Link]

Yes, vitriol. Like, announcing that 1200 of your colleagues are power-hungry monsters extracting personal benefit to their career from sadistic and controlling behavior.

Would you enjoy it?

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 2, 2018 3:04 UTC (Fri) by rodgerd (guest, #58896) [Link]

Having watched Daniel's talk in person, I fail to see how "1200 of your colleagues are power-hungry monsters extracting personal benefit to their career from sadistic and controlling behavior" is an even remotely accurate description of the content; you clearly have had a strong emotional reaction (strong enough that you and the person I replied to appear to be following people around other social media sites to vent your anger!).

And given my career has been spent poking computers in newspapers and finance, I'm very used to people making sweeping generalisations. Why would I take it to heart, unless I thought they were fair and accurate?

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 2, 2018 4:49 UTC (Fri) by pbonzini (subscriber, #60935) [Link]

I'm not sure what you are referring to, and therefore I cannot answer your questions. Sorry.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 2, 2018 6:12 UTC (Fri) by ashkulz (subscriber, #102382) [Link]

Maybe too many won't read the article in detail or watch the video, and come away with that generalization in mind?

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 2, 2018 6:16 UTC (Fri) by rodgerd (guest, #58896) [Link]

Quite possibly not, but it would be nice to think LWN commenters can manage more than the average reddit user by way of reading the material before commenting on it!

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 2, 2018 0:27 UTC (Fri) by msnitzer (guest, #57232) [Link]

Anyone who takes such offense to my use of "snowflake", is probably incapable of the introspection required to realize they are a snowflake.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 2, 2018 0:46 UTC (Fri) by airlied (subscriber, #9104) [Link]

Anyone who takes such offense to my use of "asshole", is probably incapable of the introspection required to realize they are a asshole.

Let's calm down

Posted Feb 2, 2018 0:50 UTC (Fri) by corbet (editor, #1) [Link]

Second request: I honestly think it's time to take a break and let things calm down a bit. Please?

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 2, 2018 1:31 UTC (Fri) by msnitzer (guest, #57232) [Link]

Well it's a good thing I'm not offended ;)

(I've emailed David to reinforce that I wasn't directing my comment to him.. but that aside, I fully accept I've done more harm than good in these comments; and yes I'm "done". Apologies for the noise Jon)

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 2, 2018 2:57 UTC (Fri) by rodgerd (guest, #58896) [Link]

I'm not offended by your use of snowflake, particularly; I simply find it a bit odd (and telling) that you'd use it as a derogatory term for people who don't enjoy what you appear to characterise as acceptable ways of discussing issues (e.g. supporting the code of conflict), while getting quite upset at Daniel's talk (which I attended, and was very good) because it apparently hurt your feelings in some way.

It's quite a contrast, and it might be useful to think empathically about the fact that you have more in common with the people you're dismissing than you realise.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 2, 2018 4:00 UTC (Fri) by k8to (subscriber, #15413) [Link]

This claim that snowflake is not offensive to people without problems is just not accurate. This term is categorically used to create slanted, toxic characterizations of people as a rule. Whether or not that's what your intent is here, it's the result, and refusing to believe that this is how language and association works doesn't save you.

If you want to avoid being toxic in your communications, you simply have to recognize how terms are used and the associations in place. The fact that pepe the frog looks cute doesn't mean that wearing him on your shirt to work every day won't cause problems.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 2, 2018 5:43 UTC (Fri) by ttelford (guest, #44176) [Link]

I live in a place the term “snowflake” is neither given nor received as a grave insult; it merely means different from the status quo or demanding special attention.

Clearly, the term means something very different in your worldview.

That’s fine, but please do not make the mistake of attacking anybody who doesn’t see the world through your lens.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 2, 2018 5:50 UTC (Fri) by rodgerd (guest, #58896) [Link]

That's some low-quality gaslighting right there.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 2, 2018 6:17 UTC (Fri) by ttelford (guest, #44176) [Link]

Not at all. I actually do live in an area where calling something/somebody a snowflake is not an insult. The English speaking world is a big place.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 3, 2018 1:37 UTC (Sat) by k8to (subscriber, #15413) [Link]

Yes, people self-importantly demanding special attention. That's what it means.

And it's used to imply that, crassly, about anyone they disagree with, in a lazy way that tries to shut down communication rather than engage in it.

That's the standard usage.

Lord of Snowflakes

Posted Feb 8, 2018 5:55 UTC (Thu) by Garak (guest, #99377) [Link]

disclaimer: I'm sure plenty of people would characterize me as a 'snowflake' or 'paranoid' based on ways that I've argued topics in internet comments.

The relevant quasi-paranoid thought I have here is that prior to Snowden, I had never heard the 'snowflake' term used in those ways. Close, but not the same. Prior to Snowden, had I encountered it, I would have interpreted its use as referring to the 'myth' of all snowflakes being unique, and something a compassionate person might use to encourage a sense of self-importance in a person who at the time was feeling as if they didn't matter much, because they were just a single person on a planet of billions. Then, curiously (to me), somewhat shortly after Snowden, I started seeing it used in the way you described in internet comments. Slashdot or SoylentNews, I think I saw it used by someone in the same comment as outright racist (perhaps trolling) comments. Then as time went on I saw occasional use of it in the way you described. I do think however that an adequate exploration of the term is indeed key to this entire topic, including the long comment thread. I must also admit that about the closest I ever came to kernel development was some participation in dm-devel, where an idea I made was dismissed. Before reading this thread I was certainly content to believe it likely that my idea indeed was not good, or not explained well. However I also happen to have a ruthless-jungle darwinian view of linux kernel 'politics', and a non-mainstream view that forking should be viewed with positive rather than negative connotation. Thus I was always perfectly content with the idea that I was able and free to fork and demonstrate the utility of the idea independent of any official maintainer. And even though I think this thread is the best evidence one could imagine for Linus to demote/fire msnitzer, I have to admit that part of my understanding of the political issue around Linus's 'colorful' methods of critically commenting, can pretty much be summed up by this 'snowflake' usage. Namely I've never seen any quotes from him on LWN that make me wish he would be out of the picture. Unlike about a dozen in this thread from msnitzer. Yet at the same time, I also have a paranoid theory that intelligence agencies threatened by Snowden's revelations may have pushed this particular 'snowflake' trigger/meme in a mass-psyop tactic. I hope within a couple hundred years some AI does a plot of instances of uses of the term in internet comments, perhaps to flesh out that theory. $0.02...

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 1, 2018 23:48 UTC (Thu) by pbonzini (subscriber, #60935) [Link]

Speaking at a conference is a responsibility towards the audience, and frankly I think Daniel abused it by insulting a large group of colleagues, who don't even have the opportunity to respond. Being at the receiving end of the insults (starting from the abstract, which affirms that "the kernel community is a lot more broken than it looks" and "maintainers benefit from that") was enough to make me feel uneasy.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 1, 2018 23:53 UTC (Thu) by neilbrown (subscriber, #359) [Link]

> But why does make you uneasy?

I cannot speak for Paolo, but it made *me* uneasy because I felt it was painting a distorted picture, which had just enough truth in it the people might believe the whole. I think that would be harmful.

I don't go the LCA to hear how the world is broken. I go to hear what people are doing to fix it - maybe I can join them or learn from them.

This talk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3HNeoFuSH0 is only 13 minutes long, and is about working *with* the community, and is certainly worth watching.

> I've been on the receiving end of my fair share of Linus fits,

I learned to laugh at bullies long ago; usually under my breath - I'm not stupid. Laughing at them doesn't change them, but it sure helps me. Pity might be an even healthier response, but it is more challenging.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 2, 2018 0:05 UTC (Fri) by airlied (subscriber, #9104) [Link]

Learning to laugh at bullies is fine, I've found just avoiding bullies in the first place is also a good tactic, how do you avoid bullies when it's your job to deal with them though?

I think Daniel might have overpainted the doom and gloom about it all, but maybe the LF can pay for a qualified psychologist booth at the next conference and we can describe our interactions with other community members in private and see what they say.

I know I don't do as much kernel maintainer interaction as I used to because it kinda burned me out each time, Daniel (with my support and shielding from upstream) has pretty much constructed a really good sub community in graphics and he has done more to fix this than giving a talk to explain it's broken. I do wish he'd gone into more detail on the what we can do to fix things, but really there are so many entrenched interests in the wider maintainer community that having anything reduce their standing is hard work, it's like getting politicians to pay themselves less money.

We can't even agree on a way to report bugs in a central manner, never mind what a commit msg should look like. Maybe we need maintainer training sessions.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 2, 2018 0:35 UTC (Fri) by neilbrown (subscriber, #359) [Link]

> it's like getting politicians to pay themselves less money.

This here. This is the problem. Maintainers are not like politicians.
Politicians have power because the constitution gives it to them.
Maintainers have power only because we, the community, give it to them.
Anyone who wants to can fork the kernel. Linus only has power because people trust him more than they trust anyone else in this very specific role. He doesn't have an army to suppress uprisings, or a state controlled media to convince us that, while all animals are equal, some are more equal than others. All he really has is demonstrated competence and commitment. Same goes for other maintainers.

If you keep telling yourself that the maintainers rule the world and that you have no choice than to bow to their whims or hide under a rock, then it is *you* who are giving them power, and you share some responsibility if they misuse it.

Have you seen the movie "The Help"? "You is strong, you is kind, you is important." (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3H50llsHm3k) You can use your strength and change the world, or you can just be a victim. Be the change you want to see, then infect others with it.

I'm not at all surprised that Daniel has been doing great things in his sub-community. He did hint at that in the talk. I would have liked to hear more about that.

> how do you avoid bullies when it's your job to deal with them though?

I guess avoidance isn't such a good strategy after all. I'll stick to laughing, and practicing compassion (a better word than 'pity' I think).

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 2, 2018 0:55 UTC (Fri) by airlied (subscriber, #9104) [Link]

Politicians only have power because we, the community, give it to them.

The method of their use of that power is only formalised through the documentation. At least politicians have some documentation on how they are meant to do things I suppose.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 3, 2018 22:29 UTC (Sat) by jani (subscriber, #74547) [Link]

> Anyone who wants to can fork the kernel.

Yes, but who in their right mind would want to? The community keeps preaching everyone who cares to listen, and probably many who don't care, about working upstream. Carrying local patches is expensive. I don't think forking the kernel is a viable option to bypass maintainers at any level.

Or I just didn't understand what you mean by forking in this context.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 4, 2018 5:47 UTC (Sun) by neilbrown (subscriber, #359) [Link]

> Carrying local patches is expensive.

Yes it is - long term. Short term it is very cheap.
Apparently working with certain maintainers is also expensive (with others it is a joy).
Depending on your particular needs at a particular time it makes sense to perform a cost/benefit analysis and decide what the best course of action is.
Maybe the best approach is to persist with the maintainer.
Maybe it is to try to route around them.
Maybe it is to fork and maintain a separate tree for a while, and then try to merge again in 6-12 months when circumstances might have changed.
Maybe it is to fork permanently.
Key point is that you have options and you can take control within the parameters of those options. You cannot force other people to change their behaviour, but you can choose how you will behave, and it is valuable to have a clear view of all of the options.
How a person chooses to behave typically speaks more loudly than unsolicited opinions they might choose to present.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 4, 2018 8:36 UTC (Sun) by rodgerd (guest, #58896) [Link]

> > Anyone who wants to can fork the kernel.

> Yes, but who in their right mind would want to?

Are the people who work at or on Red Hat, SuSE, Google, Amazon, Debian and Oracle? Alan Cox was insane (news to the people who found years of -ac kernels vastly better than Linus kernels)?

The hyper-majority of Linux users are no-where near a mainline kernel, and many developers only touch it to pull patches into their own trees.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 4, 2018 14:20 UTC (Sun) by jani (subscriber, #74547) [Link]

> Are the people who work at or on Red Hat, SuSE, Google, Amazon, Debian and Oracle?
> Alan Cox was insane (news to the people who found years of -ac kernels vastly better than Linus kernels)?
>
> The hyper-majority of Linux users are no-where near a mainline kernel, and many developers
> only touch it to pull patches into their own trees.

Yet most prefer being as close to upstream as possible, carrying local patches for their chosen stable release, downstream, perhaps to provide "value add" for their customers. Contrast this with, say, hardware vendors or individual developers forking upstream to bypass the maintainer structure, and trying to convince the above mentioned downstreams to carry their out-of-tree patches to deliver to the end users.

I suppose you can argue some level of downstream forking happens all the time, but I just don't see it as a relevant argument in the discussion at hand.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 4, 2018 21:26 UTC (Sun) by neilbrown (subscriber, #359) [Link]

> Contrast this with, say, hardware vendors or individual developers forking upstream to bypass the maintainer structure, and trying to convince the above mentioned downstreams to carry their out-of-tree patches to deliver to the end users.

It is not unheard of for a hardware vendor to partner with an distro to work on getting hardware support upstream - each side brings different skills for mutual benefit. They work together on a fork when circumstances prevent them from working together upstream.

If an individual developer is having trouble getting a patch upstream, it may make perfect sense to submit a bug report/feature-request to their favourite distro and say "I have a bug, I have a fix, I cannot git it upstream, could you take it directly?". This distro maintainer might do that, or might help get it upstream, or might do both.
This is all part of "routing around".

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 2, 2018 3:00 UTC (Fri) by rodgerd (guest, #58896) [Link]

> Maybe we need maintainer training sessions.

Maybe maintainers are doing too much: release management, coding, technical direction, and people leading appear to be what the maintainers would *ideally* do, and in most of the software dev world that's three to four different jobs. On top of that there's always the chance (as Daniel pointed out) of making the front page of The Register if Linus goes on one of performance art excursions to express displeasure with your work.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 1, 2018 23:49 UTC (Thu) by rodgerd (guest, #58896) [Link]

> _No one_ deserves that

I'm trying to find some evidence of your concern for people having abuse publicly heaped on them by, for example, Linus, and I can't. You seem to have a very one-sided set of concerns.

Too many lords, not enough stewards

Posted Feb 2, 2018 1:40 UTC (Fri) by pbonzini (subscriber, #60935) [Link]

Along the years I've spent in free software communities, I think I've left enough traces of the kind of person that I am and the concerns that I have. Plus of course private and in person interactions.

Now that I've swallowed bait, hook and line, will you please stop trolling, thanks.


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