New CLI flag --relay-address-server SERVER selects the SMP server used
for the chat relay address link created at startup. Only valid together
with --relay; errors out otherwise.

Threads Maybe SMPServerWithAuth through APICreateMyAddress to the new
agent createConnection parameter.

Sets the active user's profile image from a .png/.jpg/.jpeg file at
startup. Reads file, base64-encodes as data URL, and updates the user
profile directly in the DB - no notification is sent to existing
contacts. Skips the update if the stored image already matches.

Requires --user-display-name.

- rename APICreateMyAddress field srv_ to server_
- extract repeated `loop` and putStrLn from createActiveUser via
  prompt where-clause
- fuse u_ inspection: validate active user display name in the same
  case that creates the user when missing

Reject the file if the encoded data URL exceeds 12500 bytes - matches
the cap mobile and desktop UIs pass to resizeImageToStrSize for profile
images. Without this, oversized images would be silently set on the
user profile.

Enforced in CreateActiveUser, updateProfile_, newGroup, runUpdateGroupProfile
via checkProfileImageSize; max 12500 bytes (matches mobile UIs).

…ctors

Hide APICreateMyAddress server_ field so the bot doc generator does not
try to introspect SMPServerWithAuth (an unregistered type).

Add checkProfileSize / checkGroupProfileSize that encode the full
ChatMessage and check against maxEncodedInfoLength, so a long
displayName/bio combined with a near-max image is also caught at
command time instead of failing later at send time with CEException.

Run alongside the existing checkProfileImageSize (image-only cap of
12500 bytes, matching mobile UIs) in CreateActiveUser, updateProfile_,
newGroup, runUpdateGroupProfile. Update genProfileImg to fit the cap.